can ever be “just” friends – that is to say, can a friendship exist without sexual or romantic attraction “ruining” the relationship.
But before I get into the details around the “right way” I have a question for you. Hmm…How can I put this in a way that you will understand.
Well, since I am a man I can tell you that sex is a very powerful motivator for a man.
Sherry Argov said it best, Notice how I bolded a part of that quote.
The sexual stimulation and release obtained through cybersex also contribute importantly to the continued pursuit of the activity, Dr. He wrote: "Intense orgasms from the minimal investment of a few keystrokes are powerfully reinforcing." He added, "Cybersex affords easy, inexpensive access to a myriad of ritualized encounters with idealized partners.
Many cybersex abusers are re-enacting aspects of past losses, conflicts or traumas in order to foster illusions of power and love." Some cybersex addicts develop a conditioned response to the computer and become sexually aroused even before turning it on, Dr. This can exacerbate the problem for people whose jobs involve work on a computer.