My boyfriend and I've been together for nine months, and we've not had sex. I've asked him about it and he says he generally waits awhile before having sex. I feel confident about our relationship, I know he truly loves and wants to be with me but I feel like nine months is a little long to wait, like he doesn't want me sexually. I always say that “normal” and “abnormal” aren’t terribly useful labels. In other words, your boyfriend isn’t a freak who’s weird or strange or deceptive just because he’s waiting. Maybe he’s dealing with some difficult sexual history. My boyfriend and I have been dating three years but the last four months have been rough.No two people are ever in a relationship that’s “normal” — or average — in every way. Your boyfriend could have valid reasons for taking it slow. Maybe he’s insecure or young or just very cautious. Since, I've been diagnosed with anxiety and believe this to be the root of most of our problems.Generosity: thinking more of someone else’s needs rather than their own. Perseverance: doing what they set out to do and then finishing what they’ve started even when it’s difficult.Humor: ability to be joyful, light-hearted and fun.I don't know what to do as I feel taken for granted and wasted. Your take: Kendi at least we should be thankful that he is practicing safe sex.
While you can’t predict the future, you can make choices that will help guide you… Although nobody’s perfect, you owe it to yourself to have high standards in your choice of boyfriend/girlfriend.Communication: being able to talk about feelings, dreams and goals.Compatibility: similar values, beliefs and lifestyles. Why it’s good to be picky You don’t have to have too many lousy dating experiences to realize it makes sense to be picky. It always makes sense to go out with someone you’ve known for a while rather than a stranger. Ever been around a girl who can’t do anything but put down her boyfriend?“While my positive attitude and curious mind are still who I am, my physical body took a few years to heal and I now have a ‘new normal’,” she says on the site.“Despite all the physical challenges, I had to then deal with the dating scene, and wondering silently how I would actually tell someone, ‘Intercourse wasn’t happening!